Bondage Sex Is More Than Just Ropes, Handcuffs And Blindfolds
After the release and success of the movie Fifty shades of grey, more and more couples are talking about bondage sex. Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism, also known as BDSM involves role-playing and erotic practices. The participants, often couples, take up unequal roles with the consent of their partners and perform the act.
The roles are often distinguished by the terms, dominant and submissive. The dominant partner is the instigator of the sexual actions, and the submissive one is the receiver. Bondage sex takes place only when both the parties agree to participate.
During these practices, both the partners derive pleasure from it. It does include inflicting pain and being restrained, which could be uncomfortable for partners at first. Therefore, it is suggested that both the participants talk to each other about it and learn more about their fantasies. This will also help you and your partner enjoy performing the desired roles.
Types of Bondage Sex Role-plays
- Bondage
- Control
- Cock and ball torture
- Edgeplay
- Erotic electrostimulation
- Flogging
- Medical play
- Golden showers or urinating
- Paraphilic infantilism
- Sexual roleplay
- Predicament bondage
- Spanking
- Torture
- Tickle torture
- Suspension
- Wax play
Benefits Of Bondage Sex
There are numerous benefits of having bondage sex, and some of them are listed here:
Improves Communication: All those couples who indulge in bondage sex fare better than the ones who don’t, and tend to communicate well with each other. This is because they openly discuss their desires and roles. Use of bondage sex toys is completely safe during the act.
Increases Intimacy: Spending adventurous time in bed can increase your intimacy. Trying out new things and satisfying each other’s fantasy makes your love life even more interesting.
Encourages Loyalty: Bondage sex is an investment that the couples make. They put in their energy, trust and emotional space into this act. This keeps many couples away from cheating and polyamorous relationships.
Better Mental Health: Generally, people correlate bondage sex with rape, abuse or mental disorder. However, this is not the case. A study has show that participants who practiced bondage sex were more open, less neurotic, more aware and secure, mature enough to handle rejections, had overall secured well-being and relationship.
Not just mental health, it also helped them to improve their physical health. Their skin glowed, could sleep properly, felt rejuvenated, much more relaxed, energized, etc. You may never know what massaging, hugging, playing, having physical sex hand-holding can do to your physiological and physical problems. Thus, don’t be afraid and try bondage sex.
Reduces Psychological Stress: When you indulge into bondage sex, you get what satisfies you and all the acts that you’ve always longed for. This keep your mind occupied with all the good things and increases your cortisol levels, which in turn lowers your mental stress.
Reduces Anxiety: The experience of receiving and giving sexual pleasure can reduce anxiety to a large extent. The sexual pain inflicted during the pain becomes the much needed thing for orgasm and climax. Many studies have found that bondage sex is much better than yoga at times.
Having said that, don’t be afraid to try BDSM. It will only enhance your relationship.